1.
PROTECT
her like a daughter.
You
are to protect and defend her from all danger including the household enemies
who don't like her face. If she is afraid either because of one small rat in
your bedroom :) or anything, be there to protect her. Kill the rat>:O! Stop
asking her why she is acting like a baby because she is your baby :) Never
leave a room in her heart to miss her daddy again or one guy who used to be
there for her before she met you :(.
Never take your wife for granted before your family! If she is not comfortable about someone that is living with you guys, please let the person go first! Help your wife to live long. Be a man! Regard her Importance in the home! She must not be treated anyhow so that your prayers won't be hindered! Don't let anyone put asunder between u & your wife. Her proper place must be given to her! She's the second in command at home. No one is permitted to take her place. She's the first lady, your darling, sweetheart and mother of the family. So protect her from any attack and you will get the best out of her :)
2.
LOVE
her like a wife:
Love
is a total commitment to the wellbeing of your wife. Always say "I Love
You" every day to her! Say it! Don't say it is in your heart>:O! She
prefers to hear it! If it is truly in your heart, it will come out through your
mouth for out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. Let her feel
your affection! Always say "I Value You"! This will make her not to
live in fear and depression and she will give you all her support! Give her assurance
of lasting love and you will enjoy everything she is endowed with. Don't abuse
her! Let her express her feeling! Don't over labour her emotionally or
physically! Be gentle& tender with her! Meet her sexual need even if she
wants it three times daily give it to her ;)
3.
RESPECT
her like a mother:
Don't
despise her! Don't shout on her! Don't abuse her. Don't rape her. Don't beat
her. Learn to listen to her counsel and your home will be blissful.
By Pst Samuel Olagbenjo
